{"id":160,"date":"2010-04-07T17:09:32","date_gmt":"2010-04-07T22:09:32","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.patientsurvivingpatience.com\/?p=160"},"modified":"2014-08-01T06:51:37","modified_gmt":"2014-08-01T11:51:37","slug":"day-after-signing","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.patientsurvivingpatience.com\/?p=160","title":{"rendered":"Day after signing"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Robbi told me today she signed her paperwork for the divorce.\u00a0 Yes, OK, I&#8217;ll deal with it, it was coming.<\/p>\n<p>This verbatim txt conversation was strange&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>R-Do you mind if I go to the mall tonight?<br \/>\nM-I was just going to ask if I can stay late.\u00a0 What do you need at the mall?<br \/>\nR-I ruined my good jeans and Char needs new earings she can&#8217;t pull out.<br \/>\nM-Well, is it something you can take the kids with you?<br \/>\nR-Ugh, nevermind<br \/>\nM-I&#8217;m sorry, I&#8217;m really busy and I don&#8217;t have Ryan&#8217;s help he is going to the accountant.<br \/>\nR-You know when we are divorced, and it is your day with the kids, it doesn&#8217;t matter if you are busy or not.<br \/>\nM-We aren&#8217;t divorced yet.\u00a0 You told me the other day if I need to work late, you are OK with it.<br \/>\nR-I&#8217;m not OK with you never seeing your kids.\u00a0 I don&#8217;t know why you want them half the time&#8230;you always have more important things to do.<br \/>\nM-Wait, working is not more important than going to the mall?\u00a0 I&#8217;m sorry, I have big jobs that need to get done, this isn&#8217;t about kids.<br \/>\nR-Sure hope those big jobs turn into a car payment one day.<br \/>\nM-I have been busting my ass, working 7 days a week without a day off in over a month, and I did that for YOU and US and our FAMILY.\u00a0 I now have to do this so I can live in the future and not live in a box.\u00a0 I&#8217;m sorry your jeans can wait a day.<br \/>\nR-No matter I have different plans now, see ya.<\/p>\n<p>Everything I do she takes as a reflection of my parenting.\u00a0 She is trying to take the kids.\u00a0 We&#8217;ll see how this develops.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Robbi told me today she signed her paperwork for the divorce.\u00a0 Yes, OK, I&#8217;ll deal with it, it was coming. This verbatim txt conversation was strange&#8230; R-Do you mind if I go to the mall tonight? M-I was just going to ask if I can stay late.\u00a0 What do you need at the mall? R-I [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[14],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-160","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-big-d"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.patientsurvivingpatience.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/160","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.patientsurvivingpatience.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.patientsurvivingpatience.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.patientsurvivingpatience.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.patientsurvivingpatience.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=160"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/www.patientsurvivingpatience.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/160\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":208,"href":"https:\/\/www.patientsurvivingpatience.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/160\/revisions\/208"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.patientsurvivingpatience.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=160"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.patientsurvivingpatience.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=160"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.patientsurvivingpatience.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=160"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}